So, I have had a few glum posts lately and wanted to cheer things up by writing about some positives that have been happening concurrently with the less than positives. Each snippet that I am about to share has a little nugget of knowledge in it…
Happy Students
This week I took some time to recognize and reflect on one of my happy students. I have one student in my last block of the day that always seems to be happy, energetic, and positive about class. It occurred to me the other day that he helps to set the tone for the class by giving positive energy to both me and his peers.
For example, when I am telling students about the objectives for the day and what we’ll be doing, he often makes comments like, “Aww…that’s tight!” or “Man, today’s gonna be cool.” Even today, he began by saying, “Yes! I love to act!” (we went to the auditorium to act our scenes from the play we’re reading, Pygmalion).
It is so gratifying to experience someone’s enthusiasm for your subject. I pulled this young man aside this week and told him about my reflections on his role in my class because I wanted to encourage him to continue to bring that energy to others and to feel positive about his school environment. I know he will succeed in life because of his attitude and hope that my telling him so will stay with him.
Negative Nellies
So, I have more than a few negative nellies in my classes that can bring down the tone of a class as quickly as happy students can bring them up…probably quicker. I continue trying to work with these students on the way they present themselves because I honestly do not think that they can hear how they sound.
For example, many of my students constantly grumble about every assignment and every activity. “This is stupid.” “I hate this class.” “It’s too much!” Most of the time, it isn’t the words they are saying, but the way in which they say it.
The past two weeks, I was “going especially hard” on one of my students in particular. She had begun to participate less in class, was becoming much more vocal with complaints, and was pulling away from me when I tried to discuss her behavior with her.
This week, she finally got tired of me “being worsome” and decided she’d just be quiet and not say anything. She had a very quiet couple of days, which bothered me a little because she was being distant. But then, something amazing happened. Another student made a grumble about an assignment and it caught her attention. She looked at me and said, “Is that what I used to sound like?”
I loved that she reacted that way because it showed that she recognized what a drain it can be to be constantly negative. It upset her to think that she had been like that. It was a great teachable moment that I didn’t even have to teach. She taught herself. Sometimes it just pays to be patient.
He Can Be Taught!
So, our class has been reading something far removed from my students’ comfort zones lately (Pygmalion by G.B. Shaw) and it has been very difficult to get them to relate to the characters or even understand their interactions, though most are honestly trying and a few are honestly interested.
At this point in the story, I must introduce one student that had a rough start to the year. He lacked interest in the material; he only halfway completed assignments, if at all; and he was often aggressive when requested to do something. However, something changed over the past few weeks and it is like I have a whole new student! He participates in class; he is engaged in the reading; and he is one of the first to answer questions during class discussions. It’s awesome! (I think I know what kicked off the new student mentality, but will not mention it here because it would give away the identity of the student.)
Here’s the best part about this student! This week, at the beginning of class, I asked this student to put away his cell phone and mp3 player. He looks at me and responds with “Garn! Ah-aw-ah-oohh!”
For those of you unfamiliar with Eliza Doolittle, these are some of the sounds she makes to express disapproval and/or disbelief (and sometimes even pleasure…).
So, my student learned these expressions, internalized their meanings, and then used them in an appropriate way to convey humor. In other words, he made an intellectual joke! I was so happy that I celebrated that moment right then and there in class. He was so proud to have made a “smart joke.” He was all grin, from ear to ear. Never give up on a student’s potential to be an amazing English student!
Supportive Colleagues
I also want to take a moment to be thankful for my colleagues. I work with dedicated craftsmen every day. My colleagues are always willing to discuss methods, classroom management, philosophies, particular students, issues, etc. It is so terrific to be able to find such willing, intelligent sounding boards any time I need to.
We all know that as teachers, we have to make a lot of decisions during the day (many of which can seriously affect the lives of our students). I would be lost without people with whom to share ideas, reflect on best practices, and brainstorm solutions.
In particular, I want to thank my readers! I am happy to have found people that believe enough in their fellow teachers to join the conversation. So, thanks!